In today’s fast pace world man often finds himself short for time to meet someone of the opposite sex. Fortunately, there is Tinder, which makes meeting girls as easy as ordering DVDs on Amazon.
Here is the 6 step guide to efficiently meet women tinder:
Step 1: LIKE ‘EM ALL
Don’t waste your time looking at every picture. Just keep hitting that like button.
Step 2: FILTER
When you ‘LIKE’ all girls you will collate quite a large number of matches in a short period of time. Now it’s time to filter out those that are not your type and those who you are not interested in meeting. Just ‘unmatch’ them. No harm done.
Step 3: OPEN
Use a generic opener that you can copy and paste into all the chats. The reality is that probably around half the girls you will message won’t reply. Beautiful women have lives and are busy just like you so they won’t have time, or simply forget to reply to all her Tinder messages. Don’t take it personal. Just streamline the process for time management.
Step 4: FA(C)T CHECK
Once you get talking make sure you add her on Facebook as soon as possible. You need to do this to “fa(c)t check” her. Let’s face it. Women, like men, lie. Usually not about the same things but they are just as likely as us to stretch the truth when it comes to certain things. Their weight, for example, can be one of them. Connect with her on Facebook and have a quick browse through her photo albums to check her recent full body pictures to make sure you are not in for a surprise. Also, look for red flags such pictures of her with her three cats or a lack of pictures with friends.
Adding her on Facebook also gives her a chance to see that you are a real person with friends and a life, so make sure your Facebook page expresses your personality and lifestyle.
Step 5: GET THE NUMBER FAST
You don’t need any “online girlfriends” that you’ll waste your time messaging with and never actually meet. Get her number as soon as possible, preferably when you add her on Facebook, and start texting/whatsapping or talk to them on the phone.
Step 6: SET UP THE DATE ASAP
Ask to meet up with them after a day or two of messaging. You could do it earlier too depending on the conversations you are having with her and how keen she is to meet up with you. Don’t be too pushy though as that can scare them off quite easily.
When you meet them for a first date, make it short & sweet. But don’t “just” go for coffee, suggest something that sounds a bit more fun to the girl like bubble tea, ice cream or my personal favourite a milkshake. This way if you two don’t vibe you can cut the date short after an hour and it doesn’t end up costing you much.
And if you do hit it off you can take it from there…
Happy tindering!
For more info on how to meet women on tinder check out ‘The Tinder Formula: How To Get Girls From Your Smartphone’ by MensDailyLife.com
